Every relationship can be grasped in your own hands and requires skill. Then how to grasp the initiative in love? The initiative is often closely related to the individual’s quality and behavior. Only by correcting the attitude, paying attention to details and mastering the skills of communication can we truly grasp the initiative in love. The following small series will talk about the method of grasping the initiative in love according to their own experience, and hope to help the friends in need. First of all, there must be a normal state of mind. For the other party’s likes, there must be a correct attitude, so that it is not too infatuated or too cold, that is just the right state. I want to speak boldly when I want to talk, and take it seriously when I work and study. This is the first step in mastering the initiative of love. Pay attention to the charm of the eyes. The eyes are the windows of the soul, and it is the most effective way to use the eyes to convey love to each other. If you like each other, while maintaining a good normal communication mentality, using your eyes to express your feelings, you can often receive unexpected results. Be confident. The revealing of self-confidence is not only reflected in behavioral actions, but also in thinking ability, especially in the style of self-motivation, serious responsibility for things, and courtesy of people. Vote for it. According to the personality characteristics and love of the other party, we will create a new image and temperament. At the same time, we must also actively improve our various qualities, such as cultivating our own personality charm, so that the other side has a sense of security. The most important thing is to let the other person feel that you like (love) each other, so that the other person can have a good impression on you. Once you have a good feeling, you can be in an active position in love.