Lead: There are many women around us who are a lot of older women, but they are still alone at the age of marriage. How do they solve their sexual life? Enter the article to see every day and night of the urban female white-collar workers. Recently, I talked about a friend and it is divorced. We are attracted to each other. After two months of understanding, he called me once to let him go to his house to help him take care of the sick child. I stayed at his house that day. A busy day and mutual care gave us the feeling of being in trouble, and we were naturally together at night. Although we don’t know if we will eventually come together, we are both happy. Divorced single men and women are not easy. In terms of sex, I have always insisted that the physiological desire is loyal to the principles of emotion and morality. Anwen female 29-year-old company employee is unmarried (has a fixed boyfriend) I have been in love with my boyfriend for two years, and have lived together for one year. Now people’s views on “sex” have really changed, especially young people, who can calmly look at this issue. My point is – let it be. It is natural for two people to fall in love, and it is natural to love a person. If you love someone, you naturally want to be close to her (he). I feel that sex is a wonderful thing as long as it is a sympathy. I don’t reject premarital sex, but I don’t like the indiscriminate nature. I am very disgusted by the so-called “one-night stand” and “sexual partners.” Although it is not always possible for two people to have sex together, they will eventually come together. At the beginning, at least they will come together as a goal and work hard for them. For purely physiological needs or loneliness, such sexual behavior is very Immoral, very irresponsible, irresponsible to myself and the other. My boyfriend and I now get along very well and are very harmonious in our sex life. We live like ordinary couples, but we don’t have the trivialities we face in marriage. We all think that the other party is the partner we want to rely on in this life. It is a matter of time to get married, maybe we will mature more, after all, love. It is not the same as marriage. But when I am in love with my boyfriend, I will never have sex with other men. I reject this practice. The feelings should be loyal and the body is also. Lu Ming, 32-year-old sales manager Unmarried (no fixed girlfriend) First declare that I am not a prodigal son – although I don’t have a regular girlfriend now. Perhaps influenced by my parents, I have a sense of fear in marriage. When I was young, my parents often quarreled in front of me. Although they did not divorce, they have been arguing for food until now. I have talked a lot about girlfriends, but none of them can make me full of embarrassment about marriage. The first one to have sex with me was my third girlfriend, then my 24th birthday. But frankly, now I don’t have a deep impression of the girl. I remember that day, maybe because in my life, it is a memorable day. I didn’t take my feelings seriously, but I don’t know why. I have talked to a few girlfriends and I can’t let me have the idea of getting married. They didn’t wait until I got this idea and left. Sometimes I said that I broke up, sometimes they were . I think that breaking up is a matter for two people. I can’t say who is right and who is wrong. There is no fate. For the relationship between two people, I think that everyone is an adult, and no one is forced to do anything, they are all voluntary, and they all get happiness from it. Especially now, women are no longer as passive as they used to be. They also know how to make themselves happy. Men are no longer simply asking for. In this case, on the issue of sex, both men and women are equal. As long as there is no coercion and no harm, the problem of “sex” is less serious. I don’t want to find a woman because of my physical needs. I haven’t been to the soundplace. I don’t think I will go to that place. It’s so boring. I think sex is based on feelings, even if it is not love. We have a relationship with our former girlfriends. Both of us are very natural. I respect them. At the same time, I also paid the true feelings. If you can’t walk into a marriage, you may not be able to enter a marriage. Perhaps it is not enough fate. 缨Child 31-year-old advertising company director Unmarried (no fixed boyfriend) I don’t want to get married, it’s a bit more serious, I am a single person, at least for now and for a few short years I will not change this idea. I feel that marriage is very boring. Look at the married friends who are married. How many of them have been really happy? They are just married for a year or two, and they are finished slowly. The days are repeated every day. Just like being a person when you are in love, it is not exciting at all. My boyfriend has a big bunch and they know that I won’t marry them, but they still make friends with me. Of course, I also have sexual contact with them. I don’t think there is anything. Everyone is an adult and you are willing. Originally, sex is also a manifestation of love. Two men and women with good feelings are together, and there is nothing wrong with the occurrence of sexual behavior. I don’t have a fixed boyfriend, so my boyfriend who has sex with me is not sure. I think that as long as I can talk to him, it is possible for a man to have sex. Sometimes when you are in a bad mood, you need comfort or companionship, and there are just the right people around you. Intimate contact happens naturally. I think this is reasonable. I used to have close contact with a married man, but that feeling didn’t last long. I didn’t want to destroy other people’s families. After all, this game is not fun. I am with a man of the same age. Everyone has no burden and responsibility. If you are happy, you will be together. If you are unhappy, you will be separated. It is not so troublesome. Just when I started together, I would tell my opinion to him. If he can accept it, he will be with me. He can’t accept to go away. I also have sex with more than one man at the same time. I have not promised who must be loyal to him. I have the right to choose. Maybe my attitude towards sex is somewhat casual, but I really think that sex is not so sacred. Women don’t take this to be a bargaining chip. They seem to be worthy. If you think you are right and have no harm to others, then you can do it. It’s gone. I also have sex with more than one man at the same time. I have not promised who must be loyal to him. I have the right to choose. Maybe my attitude towards sex is somewhat casual, but I really think that sex is not so sacred. Women don’t take this to be a bargaining chip. They seem to be worthy. If you think you are right and have no harm to others, then you can do it. It’s gone. I also have sex with more than one man at the same time. I have not promised who must be loyal to him. I have the right to choose. Maybe my attitude towards sex is somewhat casual, but I really think that sex is not so sacred. Women don’t take this to be a bargaining chip. They seem to be worthy. If you think you are right and have no harm to others, then you can do it.